'Tell me what happens the first time you see a woman naked.'
'The first time you see a woman naked will not be like you imagined. There will be no love, no trust, no intimacy. You won’t even be in the same room as her.
You won’t get to smile as she undresses you and you undress her. You won’t get to calm her nerves with nerves of your own. You won’t get to kiss her, feeling her lips and the edge of her tongue. You won’t get to brush your fingers over the lace of her bra or count her ribs or feel her heartbeat.
The first time you see a woman naked you will be sitting in front of a computer screen watching someone play at intimacy and perform at sex. She will contort her body to please everyone in the room but her. You will watch this woman who is not a woman, pixelated and filtered and customized. She will come ready-made, like an order at a restaurant. The man on the screen will be bigger than you, rougher than you. He will teach you how to talk to her. He will teach you where to put your hands and he will teach you what you’re supposed to like. He will teach you to take what is yours.
You must unlearn this. You must unlearn this twisted sense of love. You must unlearn the definition of pleasure and intimacy you are being taught. Kill this idea of love, this idea of entitlement, this way of scarring one another.’"
this scared me and made me cry and i am almost embarrassed to post this but quite honestly i would rather fight for this rather than anything else.
men and womens value, and the indescribable importance of intimacy
- The Little Prince (via ohhhkat)
Some of my best moments are spent alone. Being alone doesn’t make you any less of a person; in my mind it makes you more of one. The idea of being happy and satisfied with your raw self is refreshing. There’s this place deep in your sacral core that you find when you really let go of your breath and just live. The vibrations given off at that moment is insane and I can find that moment when I’m really focusing on better me. Something I learned and really thrived off of from practicing yoga. Ideas, memories, moments are happening all around each and every person constantly and endlessly. Changing my perspective to not over think things and rather direct my thoughts and energy into my own happiness and bettering my own being has opened this whole knew place for me. It’s thrilling and I can’t wait to see where it’s taking me.
- (via flowering-happiness)
having a crush is painful and horrible but not having a crush is just so boring
how-tobe-indieeeee asked: I'm sorry I cannot get over how stunning you are 🙈 and your blog is hella cute so that just makes you perfect in my book ☺️🌸✌️
eekkkkss! thank you, that’s such a rad thing to say:-) i’m having such a good day already and this is just a little topping to it!
Anonymous asked: Is chase miller nice to people who aren't Instagram famous lol like will she be friends with you if you're not
ahahahh yes yes yes of course 100% she’s such a sweetheart!
me and her are friends and I’m not instagram famous at all so there’s that!
Anonymous asked: you so beautiful
Thank youu 🌻
Why can’t people be really fucking spontaneous more often. Like why don’t people get on buses in the middle of the night to see someone or call them and say what they feel exactly how they feel it. It’s all fucking mundane shit, trying to keep your cool, playing hard to get, hinting and confusing signals ugh I hate it